Just marriedThere are four major signs that a couple is built to last, an expert revealed.Alex Barth/Flickr

You can spot them easily in the movies — the couple that’s so clearly meant for each other. But in real life, it can be harder to detect a perfect match.

That’s especially true when that “match” involves ourselves. Sometimes we’re so wrapped up in our relationships that we don’t even ask ourselves if we’re actually a good fit.

Relationship expert Talia Goldstein, CEO of white-glove matchmaking service Three Day Rule, told INSIDER that there are four major signs that a couple is a good match.

If a relationship demonstrates each of these attributes, Goldstein said, then that’s how you know it’s built to last.